Trying minors as adults

Today there is an editorial in NYT about this issue.It is important that we treat our children with special care and nurture them ,encourage them so they may become productive and hopefully outstanding citizens.
When children commit crimes many times states in their desire to punish them have tried these children as adults and done excessive harm to society as whole.More prisoners have just left us broke.
Can we train families to take care of young children in risk and help them so they may become productive members of our society. Parenting and ideal parenting should be taught in school .Any body single and pregnant wanting to keep the baby should be put through child raising boot camp so they may learn to be good parents .We should also make an effort to pair children at risk with parents with resources and time to care.I always hear that many families are desperate to adopt .let us create a category where a child can have a lifelong relationship with another couple(parents) for nourishment and mutual care.It would be higher than foster parents, less than total adoption where birth parents loose all the rights.May be a hybrid Parenting with children's welfare as focus.
I have read stories of American families adopting extremely handicapped children at cost of 30 to 50 thousand dollars.They have all the ingredients to be part of a needy family which may not have Ware whittles about how to raise exceptional children.

I admire and salute people who adopt children with great handicaps

I admire people who have capacity to give great love.I am talking about those souls who knowingly adopt children with complex health problems and some of them terminally ill . Children with aids and other life threatening as well life restricting ailments are loved and welcomed by these souls even an atheist can believe in charity and love of these god incarnates.

We all are willing to do anything for our children i guess that is the bond of filial love.Love for a total stranger child in far away land is simply Divine.

I have hope for this world and that hope is strengthened when ever i read story of such love .I Just read the story of adoptive mom of a Chinese boy with severe Scoliosis in head brace in comment to one of such adoption blogs axisofbeebles.blogspot.com .Shared with NYT readers.
HATS OFF TO YOU ALL.